Category: Wonderings

Welcome to the blog of Michelle Richmond, New York Times bestselling author of  the internationally bestselling literary mystery The Year of Fog, psychological thrillers The Wonder Test and  The Marriage Pact, and other novels and story collections.

Michelle Richmond’s novels are recommended for fans of Sue Grafton, Paula Hawkins, David Baldacci, Tana French, Gillian Flynn, and Ruth Ware.

My Year of Questions

My Year of Questions

As the mother of a six-year-old boy, my days, more often than not, begin with questions. Our son has a habit of bounding into our bed around six each morning and awakening us with something like this: “Who would win in a fight–Batman or the Incredible Hulk? Which is beautifuler–a sunset or a rainbow?” (see the new blog, My Year of Questions).

Many of his questions begin with why: “Why haven’t scientists figured out how to turn sand into time? Why do kids sometimes act like your friend and sometimes growl at you?” And then there are the ifs, which are often posed as a test of my love: “If you had to choose between the whole world getting eaten up in a black hole or me being dead, which would you choose?”

It has recently occurred to me that it has been a long time since I asked big questions and truly pondered the answers. One of my favorite lines in literature comes from Walker Percy’s novel The Moviegoer: “To become aware of the possibility of a search is to be onto something. Not to be onto something is to be in despair.” A search by its very nature inspires growth. What is a search if not a series of questions, one building upon the next?

So, in the spirit of not acting my age–in the spirit of acting, indeed, like my six-year-old son–I have decided, beginning now, to start asking questions. As of today, I am embarking on a search. I will tell you straight out of the gate that I have no idea what I’m searching for. While I haven’t quite pinned down the purpose of the search, I have decided upon a method: a question a week, every week, for a year. Because I believe that the best discoveries often happen in unexpected places, I’m placing no limitations on the kinds of questions I ask. They will run the gamut from personal to political, scientific to metaphysical, spiritual to secular. I will share my questions and answers on my new blog, My Year of Asking Questions, and my sincere hope is that my questions will inspire you to ask, and answer, your own. The comments section is always open. Let the year of asking questions begin..

Go here to read this post in full. And please bookmark and share the URL of my new blog, My Year of Asking Questions: http://myyearofoquestions.michellerichmond.com.

What would you choose?

What would you choose?

I recently came across an interesting exercise, in which you are asked to read a paragraph about two very different sorts of lives, and choose which one you would prefer to live. Choice one: the world adores you and bows to you, and all is beautiful, comfortable, and glorious…with a catch. In the other, you live the very life you are leading now. Go ahead, read the choices, and answer any or all of the questions below. And please share some of your more surprising or personally illuminating responses in the comments section!

Have I already made this choice? Many times? Have I ever awakened from a wonderful dream and somewhat reluctantly entered the “real world?”

Have I ever had a dream that I would re-enter forever? What is it about “real life” that competes so easily with dream worlds which have their wonderfully intense emotions and activities? What can I do to be more aware of this value I place upon my “real life?”

How is my childhood now like a dream I have had? Would I re-enter and relive my childhood?

What pleasures of life have now passed “forever” and are now something “outgrown?” My childhood toys? My youthful desires? My adult plans? Which of these are now like dreams I have had but do not need to re-run? What parts of my life right now are transitioning into “old news” that no longer is alluring?

How do I spot the future towards which my present life is pointing? What can I do to make the transitions easier?

How does ordinary life normally “process” my “desire sets?” What is it about the passage of time that transmutes and/or extinguishes desires?

After I die will any part of my life escape this “dreamification” process? What will I look back on that I will want to re-enter? Will I be “finished with desires” when I die?

How do I know the “evolutionary” value of “getting rid of a desire?” What do I gain from doing so?

How do I embrace “me now” when I know it will one day be “that old me?”

How am I always like a child?

How is my future wrought from my innocence?

Makeshift Instructions for Vigilant Girls

Makeshift Instructions for Vigilant Girls

Erika Meitner is one kick-ass poet. Imagine my excitement at discovering that she has a new book out! It’s called Makeshift Instructions for Vigilant Girls , and here’s what Daisy Fried has to say:

These cool, hot poems about women and girls in danger and on the prowl, coming of age and being of age, are full of startling detail and vivid setting. Meitner’s range, wit, compassion and her
alertness to the moments where domestic and collective experience intersect, make these poems memorable. This book is a seriously good read.

Slightly to the right: totally unscientific brain test

Slightly to the right: totally unscientific brain test

The extraordinary blog Synthesthete turned me on to this fun right brain, left brain test. You can take it too! My results? Very curious, passionate, understanding, and intellectual (ha!) Not so stable, traditional, reserved, or conscientious (wait a minute!)

On a different scale, my results were right brain dominance 10, left brain dominance 7. Because while I’m emotional, passionate (i.e. I either cry or sigh every time Mark Ruffalo moves a facial muscle), and writerly, I also hate to be late.

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